Monday, November 28, 2011

Communication Problem

Communication is often having bottleneck in solving the problems, either problems at work or personal problems in the household. Completion of the problem is associated with a person's emotions, the more people are easy emotions then solving the problem becomes increasingly difficult, and more difficult the problem also affects to the emotions, the more difficult the problem solved make easier increase a person's emotions. This is often an obstacle to solving the problem either aid or assistance of his completion of the problem from outside himself.

Outside assistance becomes very difficult because it is already tried and lead to misunderstanding and make that would help take emotion provoked. Examples of this kind of problem often occurs in people who have a mental problem, because the mentally ill is very busy with his own thoughts that are usually difficult to be directed or advised.

Solving the problems in people who are mentally ill is not even enough, if only given an example, or follows the experience of her/him that already managed to solve a particular problem. Mentally ill people will always be busy and feel all the ways suggested has been tried and failed. Mentally ill people say this is a communication disability, so that the communication alone can not solve the problem.

Communication is mutual listening, thinking and feeling. If one of these things hard to follow then usually communication will be stalled. If communication can only come from one side then the continuity can not be durable. Because one would not stand for the part that just constantly hear, feel and think but never heard, felt or come join thinking. Communication also can not just come one way, usually must be repeated again in order to avoid misunderstanding, one with another